REAWAKEN YOUR TRUE SELF, ONE DAY AT A TIMEÂ
THE MESSY MIDDLE
MEMBERSHIP
A transformation journey for women healing from narcissistic relationship patterns - for good.
START THE JOURNEY NOWYouâve left the relationship - or maybe youâre just starting to see it for what it was.
Youâre not crazy. Youâre not broken.
But the way you think, trust, love, and show up in your life? Itâs been shaped by survival.
Youâve spent years second-guessing yourself.
Youâve been gaslit, guilted, blamed, and taught to shrink.
Now youâre stuck in a loop of self-doubt and people-pleasing, even though deep down⊠you know thereâs more for you than this.
You might not be able to fully name it yet - but you know somethingâs off.
- You feel hollow, disconnected, and unsure who the hell you are anymore.
- You catch yourself wondering, âWhy do I keep ending up in the same cycles?â
- You feel like you should be further along - but you donât know where to start.
Welcome to The Messy Middle - the space between survival and Unfu*kwithable.
The high adrenaline roller coaster of leaving an abuse cycle might be over (or almost)... but now what? This middle part can feel flat, static and confusing. Like you are unsure and treading water waiting for this great life to appear. But the âmessy middleâ is where the most healing GOLD is! This is where you reclaim your power, piece by piece.
This isnât therapy. Itâs transformation.
The Messy Middle is a trauma-informed membership for women healing after emotional or narcissistic abuse.
Itâs built around The 6 Keys to Becoming Unf*ckwithable framework - a healing roadmap that helps you:
- Deprogram toxic beliefs and internalized self-blame
- Reconnect with your intuition and inner knowing
- Set and hold boundaries without guilt
- Regulate your nervous system so you feel safe from within
- Release shame and rediscover your sense of self
- Understand covert abuse dynamics so you never fall into that cycle again
Youâll be held, supported, and lovingly challenged inside a powerful space designed to help you rebuild trust in yourself.
ENROLL FOR A LIMITED TIME SPECIAL OFFER! đ„
ENROLL NOW đ„ LIMITED-TIME SPECIAL OFFER
Join The Messy Middle Membership for $97/monthly (will increase to $222/m)
By joining youâre getting access to:Â
- 2x Monthly group sessions (value: $444/pm)Â
- A vault of my programs and classes on topics like Boundary Setting, Inner Child Healing and Somatics (value over $1500)Â
- Private member forum space - to be launched before our first call in July!
Is this the best fit for you? Let's find out!
THIS IS FOR YOU, IF...
â Youâve been in toxic, narcissistic, or emotionally abusive relationships
â Â Youâre ready to stop the cycle for good
â Â You want to reconnect with your truth, not just learn more âcoping strategiesâ
â Â Youâre tired of shrinking yourself and are ready to feel solid in who you are
 â  You are open to having your conditioning challenged and thinking outside the norm
â You want to be seen, heard, and supported by women who get it
â Â Youâre ready to become UNFU*KWITHABLE
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU, IF...
â Youâre looking for a quick fix or surface-level inspiration
â Youâre not open to exploring trauma-informed healing methods and modalities that may fall outside of the traditional talk-therapy category
â You are not open to being part of a supportive group of peers who champion you and grow with you
â Youâre not willing to take small, powerful steps toward change
By committing to this change and showing up for yourself, this is your chance to learn exactly how to:
- See, love, and respect yourself without shame
- Identify what you truly deserve and whatâs no longer negotiable
- Spot covert abuse and manipulation early
- Know and hold strong boundaries
- Re-parent your inner child and heal pain-based love patterns
- Quiet and reframe your inner critic
- Regulate your nervous system and rewire subconscious patterns
- Practice daily somatic tools to rebuild identity and power from within
- Release attachment to people and patterns that keep you small or stuck
- Build emotional maturity and navigate triggers with grace
- Feel safe from the inside out
This is how you become Unf*ckwithable.
Healing takes time but you donât have to do it alone.
 Whether youâre fresh out or years out from the relationship, family system, or abuse dynamic - The Messy Middle will walk with you as you rebuild from the inside out.
Thereâs no pressure to be âbetterâ overnight. This is about deep healing. The kind that changes how you think, feel, and move through the world. The kind that brings you home to yourself.
What you get inside The Messy Middle Membership
2x Monthly Group Calls (value: $444/m)
- 1 Deep-Dive Training on one of the 6 Keys
- 1 Q&A Coaching Call to get individual coaching support and connect with others
Calls will be scheduled in the evening EST time. Future calls will be based on member availability.
Access to the Resource Vault (value: over $1500)Â
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Badass Boundaries course - The full in-depth course to learn to know, express and hold your boundaries after abuse-trauma. The first of its kind in the world.
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Inner Critic Masterclass - identify that nagging critical voice in your mind, realize how much it holds you back and implement strategies to take back your thoughts.Â
- The Somatic Keys course - A new and complete somatic framework. Practical techniques that you actually DO with your nervous system - designed to rebuild safety, identity, and power from the inside out. Daily repeatable tools that take your healing from from âunderstanding itâ - to âBEING ITâ.Â
Private Member Community to connect with women on the same path
The Community Space will open before our first call in July.
Member-only bonuses like special offers for 1:1 coaching sessions and more!Â
P.S. You can cancel your subscription anytime in your student dashboard. But keep in mind that getting to the part where you really see progress TAKES TIME. Itâs important that you enroll in this offer if you are COMMITTED to make the change.
ENROLL FORÂ A LIMITED TIME SPECIAL OFFER đ„
I know what itâs like to lose yourself.
To question everything. To feel like youâre too much and not enough at the same time.
I created The Messy Middle because I needed a space like this when I was healing.
Iâve walked this road, and Iâve helped thousands of others walk it too - with grit, mess, grace (at times), and a lot of sass. đ I know this works, and have proven results. Not just with 10,000 plus client hours, but for myself in my own life. What I built is what I needed back when it was me in your position.
You donât have to do this alone. Let me show you what it means to become Unf*ckwithable.
-Erika xo
Trauma-Informed Coach, Abuse Survivor, Mom of 5, and your biggest cheerleader
Erika is a jewel! She is gentle and kind when opening the doors to your pain and will hand you the keys to unlocking and healing your trauma.
She is thought-provoking all the while leading you on a journey that will set you free.
The words that I’m writing could never express my gratitude for what she’s done for me or how she’s changed my life. I will never be the same again.
If you’re reading this and thinking about sessions with Erika, this is your sign…..just do it!
- JJ
Erika provides a different perspective and has helped me to see the impact and benefit of setting boundaries.
She has helped me immensely with learning to set boundaries in areas I wasn't even aware I needed them to be set.
In the past not setting boundaries with family and friends has taken a toll on my health both physically and mentally. I have an autoimmune disease and it is imperative to my health to manage stress.
I am learning to put myself first and not be a people pleaser to everyone. I have been changing behaviors and enjoying more peace and love in my life. She has also helped me navigate the stress of having a chronic disease. I highly recommend working with Erika through personalized coaching and/or group coaching.
Jessica C, Florida
READYÂ TO JOINÂ THE MESSY MIDDLE MEMBERSHIP?
Lock in the best deal now for only $97/monthly (price later: $222/m)
By joining youâre getting instant access to:Â
- 2x Monthly group sessions (value: $444/pm)Â
- A vault of my programs and classes on topics like Boundary Setting, Inner Child Healing and Somatics (value over $1500)
- Private member forum space (opening in July!)Â
