Are you blind to red flags in relationships?

Have you ever thought you might be color blind because of all the red flags 🚩you didn’t see? If you feel like you're blind to red flags in relationships, read on!

Maybe, by now, you feel like red flags are almost your go-to fashion accessory - and you do look so good in red…

At this point, you might be laughing, but you’re also tired and desperate that all of your relationships seem to involve some kind of pain.

Starting out euphoric, and at some point down the road, waking up feeling so confused and hollow. Worrying about how hard it is to pinpoint why you are so miserable, and how it is so different from the start. You may be asking from within ‘does it have to be that way?’

‘Do all roses have thorns, and are roses the only flowers out there?’

Shame that comes along with dismissed red flags... 

I know how you feel because I have been there myself.

I felt so much shame, that even with a background in psychology and human behavior, I did not see or act upon my internal warning signals that I teach people to access now.

You may feel shame too, as though you have somehow ‘attracted’ emotionally abusive/narcissistic relationship cycles. Even with book knowledge on the subject (which me, and countless other people with my background have found out the hard way), it won’t protect you.

It’s many deeper layers. All as important as the next.

• It is your conditioning.
• It is what you experienced love to be.
• It is what you learned you were worth.
• It is what you unconsciously learned from the systems around you.
• It is your childhood attachment, to name but a few, that make these red flags seem barely a problem.

If that’s something you want to explore more about - save your spot for my upcoming program RISE. Only the waiting list is about to receive unique first-hand access with amazing discounts!! 

Why therapy won't always be the best way to go

It was my exact experience that led me to realize that if it can happen to me despite my background; it must be happening to others on a much wider scale.

How much bigger, and what an incredible journey it would be I would never have imagined in my wildest dreams.

To be here now, with more than 10,000 client hours teaching people what I so badly needed years ago. How to rise from poor treatment and shitty relationships, change beliefs around relationship dynamics, abuse dynamics and how love works.

Shift from feeling hopeless, downtrodden and fearful - to feeling brave, sure, worthy and ‘unf*ckwithable’.

I tried so many ways to find peace in this, spent six figures in the process, AND I noticed startling deficits.

You can go to therapy weekly but what happens when your ex texts on a Friday night? You can get your hands on all the resources but they’re no good when your nervous system freezes and you’ve got no real practice in working with somatics and what your body is telling you and doing to protect you…

And let’s be honest, this kind of healing experience can be a very lonely journey.

You wake up to new questions and challenges every day, that are mostly met with invalidating and even shaming responses from people. Not everyone gets it, and that is a fact.

Are you ready to take the next step? 

That’s what my new program is.

All of the time, money and experience that would have been my map out into personal power - with support from an expert, applying the solutions to YOUR personal situation.